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DAVID R. MCCAIN, OWNER-TRAINER-COACH

My life purpose is to change the world by making relationships work

For Individuals, Couples, and Families Catalyzing personal growth and developing stronger communication skills

  • Training – Sharing wisdom to open doors to personal growth and effectiveness
  • Mediation – Facilitating connection to foster solutions for people locked in difference

For Businesses and OrganizationsHelping groups get work done more effectively, efficiently, and enjoyably

  • Training – Sharing wisdom to strengthen teams, improve customer service, better resolve conflict, enhance communication capacities and increase leadership skills.
  • Business Consulting – Connecting with the desires of the organization (for-profit, non-profit or other) to craft strategies that increase their effectiveness, efficiency, and enjoyment (e.g. Strategic Planning, Meeting Facilitation, Mission/Vision/Values Creation)

  

6 week Foundations Training

Successful Relationships are the #1 determinant of well-being.  The quality of your relationships not only determines personal and professional success, it determines both physical and mental health.  

This highly interactive and spirited training will provide time-tested tools that will improve all your relationships using the Compassionate (Nonviolent) Communication model.  This model provides concrete strategies and processes to make even your best relationships even better.

Through this 12-hour training you will develop:

  • An understand of the value of knowing “what matters” to you and others in relationships
  • Self-Care skills: Tools to improve your relationship with YOU (the root of strong relationships with others)
  • Listening skills: A greater capacity to be present to others in ways that lead to healing and growth
  • Self-expression skills:  The ability to convey difficult messages effectively and authentically

Relationships are always changing. You need skills to sustain them and create the world you want in each moment.  Through this training you will join a unique learning community to explore how the consciousness and tools of Compassionate Communication will improve your relationships and your life!

Dates:
♥ Sunday, February 12, 4 pm to 6 pm
♥ Sunday, February 19, 4 pm to 6 pm
♥ Sunday, February 26, 4 pm to 6 pm
♥ Sunday, March 5, 4 pm to 6 pm
♥ Sunday, March 12, 4 pm to 6 pm
♥ Sunday, March 19, 4 pm to 6 pm

Location: Northern Arizona Center for Entreprenuership and Technology, Flagstaff, AZ

 Fees:

 ♥ Early Bird Registration (Until January 20): $160

 ♥ With a Friend (January 20 to February 3): $340 (for 2)

 ♥ Standard Rate (January 20 to February 3): $180

 NOTE: If you are interested in this training and uncomfortable with the fees listed here, please contact me at davewithheart@gmail.com. I am committed to creating mutually-satisfying arrangements that allow all interested individuals to attend my trainings. I would enjoy a change to talk with you to determine an arrangement that works for both of us.

 To register:  Go to this link

 Email Dave at davewithheart@gmail.com or call 619-218-7554 with questions

Click Here to Register for Elevate Your Relationships!

“In prayer it is better to have a heart without words than words without a heart.”

by Mahatma Gandhi

“Everyone has been made for some particular work, and the desire for that work has been put in every heart.”

by Mevlana Rumi

“You change your life by changing your heart.”

by Anonymous
Questions of science, science and progress, don’t speak as loud as my heart.
By Coldplay
If you want to know me, look inside your heart
By Lao Tzu
Gratitude is the heart’s memory.
French Proverb
All paths lead nowhere, so it is important to choose a path that has heart.
By Carlos Castaneda
A person’s world is only as big as their heart.
By Tanya A. More
Until we can receive with an open heart, we are never really giving with an open heart.
By Brene Brown
Your work is to discover your world and then with all your heart give yourself to it.
By The Buddha
The place to improve the world is first in one’s own heart and head and hands.
By Robert M. Pirsig
Nobody has ever measured, not even poets, how much the heart can hold.
By Zelda Fitzgerald
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Take Time “out” and Take “Timeouts”

Time out Pronunciation: /ˌtīm ˈout

  1.  Time for rest or recreation away from one’s usual work or studies.
  2.  A short interruption in a regular period of play during which a referee or other official stops the clock so that the players may rest, deliberate, make substitutions, etc.

Definition # 1 — Fruits of my time “out”:  Place Matters!

In our busy lives, it isn’t often when we get time away from our daily routine (derisively known as the “grind”).  When we do, we not only refresh ourselves by getting rest, we open ourselves to new ideas and new ways of thinking.

This weekend, Katie, myself and our dog, Star, took an overnight camping trip just off of Highway 180 near Snowbowl Road.  This was our first time “out” in several weeks. It was great!  I’m so grateful that we have an abundance of at-large camping only 10 minutes from our home near Downtown Flagstaff.

Getting “out” allowed me to do some thinking about life and about work.  This thinking brought clarity about   the important of “place” to the work I do.  I am here in Flagstaff doing work to make Flagstaff a better place.  I have deep affinity for the forested wonderland surrounding us and for the people who call this place home.  I’m committed to being here as a resident and business owner.

Definition # 2 — Timeouts are Powerful Tools

In trainings and life coaching sessions, I emphasize the important of using timeouts to create breaks in the action when a dialogue is not proceeding as hoped.  When both parties are triggered or upset, a timeout provides space for each to access other resources to get re-connected to themselves.  A timeout is a way of caring for the other party — a means of acknowledging that if I keep speaking I may say something that may further trigger the other person.  After re-connecting, the parties can come back together to listen to each other and share their own needs.  The “other resources” may be oneself (by providing self-empathy) or another person (by requesting empathy).

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